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š§ Stop Selling Classes: How to Attract, Stand Out, and Convert in a Noisy Market
Because āFree Classā isnāt a marketing strategyāitās background noise.
Hello, kickers!
š The Kick is Here: Upgrade Your Message. Multiply Your Momentum.
This weekās issue is about more than getting leadsāitās about earning attention, building trust, and creating offers people canāt ignore. If your marketing still sounds like āFree Trialā and āLearn Self-Defense,ā itās time to level up. We're breaking down how to use curiosity, identity, and clear differentiation to stand out in a noisy market and actually convert.
Youāll also see real campaign wins from RMA clients like Diana Oldham, sharp mindset drops from Adam, Arce, and Martell, and a new podcast launch thatās all about having it allāwithout losing yourself in the process.
Oh, and if youāre planning to be at IMPAKT Scottsdale this November? Donāt wait. Charleston sold out. This oneās next.

š Next Stop: IMPAKT Mastermind Live ā Scottsdale, AZ
Charleston is sold out. Scottsdale is next.
If you missed Charleston, donāt make the same mistake twice.
š November 7ā8, 2025
š Scottsdale Marriott at McDowell Mountains
16770 N Perimeter Dr, Scottsdale, AZ 85260
šØ Book Your Hotel Here
This event isnāt for dabblers.
Itās for school owners who want to stop guessing, start scaling, and finally lead with clarity, confidence, and control.
š¤ Featured Speakers:
Brady Edwards ā Former Video Director for Mr. Beast, now CEO of The Biggest Agency
Mike Arce ā Entrepreneur, coach, speaker, and founder of a 7-figure fitness-focused ad agency
+ more powerhouse guests to be announced
š TICKETS ON SALE NOW
šÆ impaktmastermind.com/scottsdale
š° $1497 includes:
Full access to both seminar days
One FREE month of CORE OS
Tactical playbooks you can implement before you leave the room
šØ First-time attendee?
Message Nicole on Circle, email [email protected], or drop a commentāand sheāll hook you up with a code to save $1000 off your ticket.
No more theory. No more overwhelm.
Just real strategy in a room full of people building the way you want to.
Scottsdale is your next breakthrough.
Lock it in. Build it right.
š§ Stop Selling Classes: How to Attract, Stand Out, and Convert in a Noisy Market

Letās get straight to it:
Most martial arts schools arenāt struggling because they donāt have offers.
Theyāre struggling because their offers sound exactly like everyone elseās.
And in a market full of noise, sounding the same = getting ignored.
This weekās issue is a marketing gut checkāhow to attract leads, spark curiosity, and build trust in a world where attention is expensive, and sameness is the fastest way to lose.
Letās break it down.
š„ The Psychology of Curiosity: How to Make Offers They Canāt Scroll Past
Boring doesnāt get clicks. Curiosity creates momentum.
Humans are wired to resolve tension. That means your offer needs more than valueāit needs pull.
Most schools market features:
āFree Classā
ā2 Weeks Trialā
āLearn Self-Defenseā
Safe? Yes.
But safe is invisible.
Instead, give them an open loop:
āThe 3 Skills Kids Will Need in 2030 (That Schools Arenāt Teaching Them)ā
āConfidence Lab: A 7-Day Experiment That Transforms Shy Kids Into Leadersā
āWhat Every 8-Year-Old Should Know Before Middle Schoolā
Curiosity = Question + Tension + Payoff.
Make them lean in. Make them wonder. Then invite them to close the loop.
š āCuriosity is like an open loop in someoneās brain. Once itās open, they have to close it.ā
š§ Memorable Quotes:
āBoring doesnāt get clicks. Curiosity gets commitment.ā
āYou donāt need better adsāyou need better tension.ā
āIf your offer looks safe, it wonāt even get seen.ā
š¤ Identity Marketing: Sell Who They Become (Not What They Do)
People donāt buy ākarate.ā
They buy confidence.
They buy focus.
They buy the identity shift that happens through your program.
Youāre not selling a classāyouāre selling a transformation.
Speak to the destination:
āWe build kids who can ace job interviews before they can drive.ā
āWe train moms who lead at home and in the boardroom.ā
āWe help shy kids walk into every room with respect and confidence.ā
š āIdentity marketing is like holding up a mirrorānot of who they are, but of who they wish they could be. Then showing them your school is the bridge to get there.ā
š§ Memorable Quotes:
āStop selling classes. Start selling who they become.ā
āParents donāt buy karate. They buy confidence that lasts 30 years.ā
āYour program is the bridge. Their identity is the destination.ā
š The Noise Filter: Stand Out or Disappear
If your marketing sounds like every other school, youāve already lost.
Do this today:
Audit your competitorsā ads, posts, and websites
Ask: āIf I swapped logos, would anyone notice?ā
Zig where they zag
For example:
If they say ādiscipline,ā you say āemotional intelligenceā
If they say āself-defense,ā you say āfuture-ready confidenceā
If theyāre generic, you go hyper-specific:
āConfidence for kids who are shy, quiet, or anxious.ā
š āImagine walking through a noisy marketplace. Everyoneās yelling āFresh fruit!ā
Then one vendor whispers: āThese apples will make your kid a genius.ā
Who do you pay attention to?ā
š§ Memorable Quotes:
āIf you sound like everyone else, you disappear into the noise.ā
āDifferentiation isnāt just smart marketingāitās survival.ā
āThe easiest way to get ignored is to say what everyone else is saying.ā
ā³ The 7-Hour Rule of Trust: Why Most Leads Donāt Convert
Most school owners stop after one follow-up.
Or one DM.
Or one intro.
But trust isnāt built in minutes.
Itās built in hours.
Research shows that people need 7 hours of interaction to trust you.
Most schools give them 7 minutes.
Your job is to compress those hoursāfast.
Sample 7-Hour Strategy:
Day 1: Ad ā Opt-in ā Text + Email
Day 2: Retargeting ad + personal video DM
Day 3: Social proof post + follow-up call
By Day 7: They've had 7+ touchpoints
š āSelling without building trust is like proposing on the first date. Even if itās a great fit, they just donāt know you well enough yet.ā
Final Word:
If your marketing looks like every other schoolās, feels safe, and relies on ads to do all the heavy liftingāyou donāt have a traffic problem.
You have a messaging problem.
You donāt need to scream louder.
You need to say something worth hearing.
So this month:
š£ Spark curiosity.
š¤ Sell identity.
š§ Build trust.
And watch what happens when you stop selling classesāand start selling what people actually want.
Letās go.
š New Podcast Drop: Having It All with Kelly Murray & Nicole Stratychuk
Leadership. Motherhood. Business. Real talkāno filters.
Letās be honest:
Most conversations about ābalanceā are fluffy, unrealistic, or straight-up nonsense.
Thatās why weāre pumped to share the launch of a brand new podcast hosted by two powerful voices in this industry: Kelly Murray and Nicole Stratychuk.
Having It All is about what it really takes to lead a business, grow a family, and stay true to who you are without burning out or selling out.
š¬ Expect unfiltered conversations around:
Building businesses while raising babies
Leading teams without losing yourself
The pressure to be āall inā on everythingāand how to make that work on your terms
What having it all really means when youāre building something big
š§ Listen now, subscribe, and share with a woman in your life whoās walking the same path.
Because you can have it all.
You just canāt do it the way the world tells you to.
The Kickās pick of the hottest headlines in social this week:

This weekās scroll delivered gut checks, growth punches, and mindset upgrades. If you're ready to lead louder, think bigger, and stop coastingāthese are the voices worth listening to:
Adam Kifer
Anyone can lead when itās easy. But when the pressureās on? Thatās when your real leadership shows upāor folds.
š Watch it here
Shelly Debin Toland
Simple truth: You are in control of the life you create.
No oneās coming to rescue you. The pen is already in your hand.
š Watch it here
Mike Arce
Character isnāt shown when things are easyāitās revealed when theyāre hard.
Discipline starts when comfort ends.
š Watch it here
Dave Kovar
"The greatest of all faults is to be conscious of none."
If you canāt see your blind spots, youāre already being held back by them.
š Watch it here
Dan Martell
The version of you that got here?
It wonāt be the version that takes you higher.
To break the next ceiling, youāve got to evolve.
š Watch it here
š§ Takeaway this week:
Growth starts when the excuses end.
Be honest. Be intentional. Be ready to become the next version of yourself.
š Martial Memes
These memes hit home for all of us martial artists and gave us a good chuckle. Click on the image to view the original account that posted each meme. Enjoy!
Have a MEME that you want featured? Send them to us at [email protected] or tag our instagram account @thekicknewsletter.
š What Weāre Reading: The Ultimate Blueprint for an Insanely Successful Business by Keith Cunningham

Because working harder wonāt fix a broken business model.
If you're tired of "grind more" advice and want real strategyāthis book delivers.
Keith Cunningham is the real "Rich Dad" behind the Rich Dad, Poor Dad ideaāand in this book, he breaks down how to think like a business owner who builds for profit, systems, and scale.
No fluff. No guru speak. Just tactical principles that help you run your numbers, fix your bottlenecks, and grow like an operatorānot a hustler.
š” Key Takeaways for School Owners:
ā
Revenue is vanityāprofit is sanity
ā
You donāt need more motivationāyou need better decisions
ā
Most struggling businesses donāt need new ideasāthey need clarity and control
If your school is growing but your stress is too⦠or youāre not sure where the money is going⦠this book is the blueprint you didnāt know you needed.
š Grab your copy here: The Ultimate Blueprint for an Insanely Successful Business on Amazon
š Relentless Results: Success Stories from RMA
š Diana Oldhamās Campaign Is Turning Up the Results! š
Big win this week for Diana Oldham!
In just the last 7 days, weāve taken her Cost Per Lead from $40 down to just $11. š„
Thatās not just a dropāitās a strategic shift thatās turning interest into real momentum.
This kind of performance comes from smart testing, fast adjustments, and a commitment to dialing in what works.
š Huge congrats, Dianaāletās keep pushing the pace!
š Want to build campaigns that perform like this?
Book your RMA Discovery Call here.
Letās create your next win.
š¬ Have Something That Is Kick Worthy?
We know our readers have great ideas, insights, and stories to share! If youāve got something thatās "kick-worthy"āwhether itās a success story, a marketing tip, or something thatās helping your school thriveāsubmit it to us at [email protected]. Your content could be featured in an upcoming edition of The Kick and shared with martial arts school owners around the world!
š„ Thatās a Wrap for This Week!
This issue was your reminder that growth doesnāt come from louder adsāit comes from sharper messaging, deeper trust, and showing people who they can become through your program.
When you lead with curiosity, sell transformation, and stay consistent with your follow-up, marketing stops feeling like a guessing gameāand starts driving real results.
So this week:
š£ Rework your offers.
š§ Audit your message.
š„ Take one bold step toward standing out instead of blending in.
And if youāre serious about building your next breakthroughāScottsdale is waiting.
Stay focused. Stay intentional.
And as alwaysāstay sharp, stay relentless, and keep kicking forward. šš„