Hello, kickers!
đ The Kick is Here: Upgrade Your Message. Multiply Your Momentum.
This weekâs issue is about more than getting leadsâitâs about earning attention, building trust, and creating offers people canât ignore. If your marketing still sounds like âFree Trialâ and âLearn Self-Defense,â itâs time to level up. We're breaking down how to use curiosity, identity, and clear differentiation to stand out in a noisy market and actually convert.
Youâll also see real campaign wins from RMA clients like Diana Oldham, sharp mindset drops from Adam, Arce, and Martell, and a new podcast launch thatâs all about having it allâwithout losing yourself in the process.
Oh, and if youâre planning to be at IMPAKT Scottsdale this November? Donât wait. Charleston sold out. This oneâs next.

đ Next Stop: IMPAKT Mastermind Live â Scottsdale, AZ
Charleston is sold out. Scottsdale is next.
If you missed Charleston, donât make the same mistake twice.
đ November 7â8, 2025
đ Scottsdale Marriott at McDowell Mountains
16770 N Perimeter Dr, Scottsdale, AZ 85260
đ¨ Book Your Hotel Here
This event isnât for dabblers.
Itâs for school owners who want to stop guessing, start scaling, and finally lead with clarity, confidence, and control.
đ¤ Featured Speakers:
Brady Edwards â Former Video Director for Mr. Beast, now CEO of The Biggest Agency
Mike Arce â Entrepreneur, coach, speaker, and founder of a 7-figure fitness-focused ad agency
+ more powerhouse guests to be announced
đ TICKETS ON SALE NOW
đŻ impaktmastermind.com/scottsdale
đ° $1497 includes:
Full access to both seminar days
One FREE month of CORE OS
Tactical playbooks you can implement before you leave the room
đ¨ First-time attendee?
Message Nicole on Circle, email [email protected], or drop a commentâand sheâll hook you up with a code to save $1000 off your ticket.
No more theory. No more overwhelm.
Just real strategy in a room full of people building the way you want to.
Scottsdale is your next breakthrough.
Lock it in. Build it right.
đ§ Stop Selling Classes: How to Attract, Stand Out, and Convert in a Noisy Market

Letâs get straight to it:
Most martial arts schools arenât struggling because they donât have offers.
Theyâre struggling because their offers sound exactly like everyone elseâs.
And in a market full of noise, sounding the same = getting ignored.
This weekâs issue is a marketing gut checkâhow to attract leads, spark curiosity, and build trust in a world where attention is expensive, and sameness is the fastest way to lose.
Letâs break it down.
đĽ The Psychology of Curiosity: How to Make Offers They Canât Scroll Past
Boring doesnât get clicks. Curiosity creates momentum.
Humans are wired to resolve tension. That means your offer needs more than valueâit needs pull.
Most schools market features:
âFree Classâ
â2 Weeks Trialâ
âLearn Self-Defenseâ
Safe? Yes.
But safe is invisible.
Instead, give them an open loop:
âThe 3 Skills Kids Will Need in 2030 (That Schools Arenât Teaching Them)â
âConfidence Lab: A 7-Day Experiment That Transforms Shy Kids Into Leadersâ
âWhat Every 8-Year-Old Should Know Before Middle Schoolâ
Curiosity = Question + Tension + Payoff.
Make them lean in. Make them wonder. Then invite them to close the loop.
đ âCuriosity is like an open loop in someoneâs brain. Once itâs open, they have to close it.â
đ§ Memorable Quotes:
âBoring doesnât get clicks. Curiosity gets commitment.â
âYou donât need better adsâyou need better tension.â
âIf your offer looks safe, it wonât even get seen.â
đ¤ Identity Marketing: Sell Who They Become (Not What They Do)
People donât buy âkarate.â
They buy confidence.
They buy focus.
They buy the identity shift that happens through your program.
Youâre not selling a classâyouâre selling a transformation.
Speak to the destination:
âWe build kids who can ace job interviews before they can drive.â
âWe train moms who lead at home and in the boardroom.â
âWe help shy kids walk into every room with respect and confidence.â
đ âIdentity marketing is like holding up a mirrorânot of who they are, but of who they wish they could be. Then showing them your school is the bridge to get there.â
đ§ Memorable Quotes:
âStop selling classes. Start selling who they become.â
âParents donât buy karate. They buy confidence that lasts 30 years.â
âYour program is the bridge. Their identity is the destination.â
đ The Noise Filter: Stand Out or Disappear
If your marketing sounds like every other school, youâve already lost.
Do this today:
Audit your competitorsâ ads, posts, and websites
Ask: âIf I swapped logos, would anyone notice?â
Zig where they zag
For example:
If they say âdiscipline,â you say âemotional intelligenceâ
If they say âself-defense,â you say âfuture-ready confidenceâ
If theyâre generic, you go hyper-specific:
âConfidence for kids who are shy, quiet, or anxious.â
đ âImagine walking through a noisy marketplace. Everyoneâs yelling âFresh fruit!â
Then one vendor whispers: âThese apples will make your kid a genius.â
Who do you pay attention to?â
đ§ Memorable Quotes:
âIf you sound like everyone else, you disappear into the noise.â
âDifferentiation isnât just smart marketingâitâs survival.â
âThe easiest way to get ignored is to say what everyone else is saying.â
âł The 7-Hour Rule of Trust: Why Most Leads Donât Convert
Most school owners stop after one follow-up.
Or one DM.
Or one intro.
But trust isnât built in minutes.
Itâs built in hours.
Research shows that people need 7 hours of interaction to trust you.
Most schools give them 7 minutes.
Your job is to compress those hoursâfast.
Sample 7-Hour Strategy:
Day 1: Ad â Opt-in â Text + Email
Day 2: Retargeting ad + personal video DM
Day 3: Social proof post + follow-up call
By Day 7: They've had 7+ touchpoints
đ âSelling without building trust is like proposing on the first date. Even if itâs a great fit, they just donât know you well enough yet.â
Final Word:
If your marketing looks like every other schoolâs, feels safe, and relies on ads to do all the heavy liftingâyou donât have a traffic problem.
You have a messaging problem.
You donât need to scream louder.
You need to say something worth hearing.
So this month:
đŁ Spark curiosity.
đ¤ Sell identity.
đ§ Build trust.
And watch what happens when you stop selling classesâand start selling what people actually want.
Letâs go.
đ New Podcast Drop: Having It All with Kelly Murray & Nicole Stratychuk
Leadership. Motherhood. Business. Real talkâno filters.
Letâs be honest:
Most conversations about âbalanceâ are fluffy, unrealistic, or straight-up nonsense.
Thatâs why weâre pumped to share the launch of a brand new podcast hosted by two powerful voices in this industry: Kelly Murray and Nicole Stratychuk.
Having It All is about what it really takes to lead a business, grow a family, and stay true to who you are without burning out or selling out.
đŹ Expect unfiltered conversations around:
Building businesses while raising babies
Leading teams without losing yourself
The pressure to be âall inâ on everythingâand how to make that work on your terms
What having it all really means when youâre building something big
đ§ Listen now, subscribe, and share with a woman in your life whoâs walking the same path.
Because you can have it all.
You just canât do it the way the world tells you to.
The Kickâs pick of the hottest headlines in social this week:

This weekâs scroll delivered gut checks, growth punches, and mindset upgrades. If you're ready to lead louder, think bigger, and stop coastingâthese are the voices worth listening to:
Adam Kifer
Anyone can lead when itâs easy. But when the pressureâs on? Thatâs when your real leadership shows upâor folds.
đ Watch it here
Shelly Debin Toland
Simple truth: You are in control of the life you create.
No oneâs coming to rescue you. The pen is already in your hand.
đ Watch it here
Mike Arce
Character isnât shown when things are easyâitâs revealed when theyâre hard.
Discipline starts when comfort ends.
đ Watch it here
Dave Kovar
"The greatest of all faults is to be conscious of none."
If you canât see your blind spots, youâre already being held back by them.
đ Watch it here
Dan Martell
The version of you that got here?
It wonât be the version that takes you higher.
To break the next ceiling, youâve got to evolve.
đ Watch it here
đ§ Takeaway this week:
Growth starts when the excuses end.
Be honest. Be intentional. Be ready to become the next version of yourself.
đ Martial Memes
These memes hit home for all of us martial artists and gave us a good chuckle. Click on the image to view the original account that posted each meme. Enjoy!
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đ What Weâre Reading: The Ultimate Blueprint for an Insanely Successful Business by Keith Cunningham

Because working harder wonât fix a broken business model.
If you're tired of "grind more" advice and want real strategyâthis book delivers.
Keith Cunningham is the real "Rich Dad" behind the Rich Dad, Poor Dad ideaâand in this book, he breaks down how to think like a business owner who builds for profit, systems, and scale.
No fluff. No guru speak. Just tactical principles that help you run your numbers, fix your bottlenecks, and grow like an operatorânot a hustler.
đĄ Key Takeaways for School Owners:
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Revenue is vanityâprofit is sanity
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You donât need more motivationâyou need better decisions
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Most struggling businesses donât need new ideasâthey need clarity and control
If your school is growing but your stress is too⌠or youâre not sure where the money is going⌠this book is the blueprint you didnât know you needed.
đ Grab your copy here: The Ultimate Blueprint for an Insanely Successful Business on Amazon
đ Relentless Results: Success Stories from RMA
đ Diana Oldhamâs Campaign Is Turning Up the Results! đ
Big win this week for Diana Oldham!
In just the last 7 days, weâve taken her Cost Per Lead from $40 down to just $11. đĽ
Thatâs not just a dropâitâs a strategic shift thatâs turning interest into real momentum.
This kind of performance comes from smart testing, fast adjustments, and a commitment to dialing in what works.
đ Huge congrats, Dianaâletâs keep pushing the pace!
đ Want to build campaigns that perform like this?
Book your RMA Discovery Call here.
Letâs create your next win.
đŹ Have Something That Is Kick Worthy?
We know our readers have great ideas, insights, and stories to share! If youâve got something thatâs "kick-worthy"âwhether itâs a success story, a marketing tip, or something thatâs helping your school thriveâsubmit it to us at [email protected]. Your content could be featured in an upcoming edition of The Kick and shared with martial arts school owners around the world!
đĽ Thatâs a Wrap for This Week!
This issue was your reminder that growth doesnât come from louder adsâit comes from sharper messaging, deeper trust, and showing people who they can become through your program.
When you lead with curiosity, sell transformation, and stay consistent with your follow-up, marketing stops feeling like a guessing gameâand starts driving real results.
So this week:
đŁ Rework your offers.
đ§ Audit your message.
đĽ Take one bold step toward standing out instead of blending in.
And if youâre serious about building your next breakthroughâScottsdale is waiting.
Stay focused. Stay intentional.
And as alwaysâstay sharp, stay relentless, and keep kicking forward. đđĽ







