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š§ Rewire the Buyer: Storytelling That Changes Beliefs
If you want real momentum in your school, stop trying to pitch memberships and start rewiring belief systems.
Hello, kickers!
š The Kick is Here: Stories Sell, Strategy Scales, and Your Circle Matters
This weekās issue is all about shaping belief, building trust, and leading with more clarity than chaos. Our feature article dives into storytelling as a tool for conversionābecause when parents hear their childās story through your words, they stop shopping and start enrolling.
Weāre also highlighting big wins from Matt Rosalez and the newly rebranded Breakthrough Advertising team, a leadership book that hits harder than most full-blown business courses, and five social posts that will challenge how you hire, listen, and think about your mission.
The people around you, the stories you tell, and the beliefs you reinforce?
Theyāre either building your businessāor holding it back.
Letās go.

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š§ Rewire the Buyer: Storytelling That Changes Beliefs

Most school owners think their job is to convince parents or adults to sign up.
Itās not.
If you want real momentum in your school, stop trying to pitch memberships and start rewiring belief systems.
Because hereās the truth: anyone can offer a free class.
Few can tell a story that changes how a parent sees their childās future.
Thatās the difference between struggling for sign-ups and having people say,
āWhere do I put my card?ā
š Youāre Not Selling Martial Arts. Youāre Selling a Shift.
Dan Kennedy broke it down years ago:
Repair Offer ā āYour kidās confidence is broken, we can fix it.ā
Improvement Offer ā āTheyāre okay, but we can make them better.ā
New Opportunity ā āThis is something new, different, and better than anything youāve tried.ā
šÆ Guess which one wins?
ā
New Opportunity.
Parents donāt want karate ālike they had when they were kids.ā
They want the thing that feels new, proven, and built for todayās challenges.
Frame it as a new opportunity and youāre not just asking them to buy classes ā youāre inviting them to see their kid in a whole new way.
šÆ The Enrollment Funnel Isnāt a Website. Itās a Frame.
Stop thinking of your ads, texts, intro lessons, and follow-ups as tasks.
Theyāre not tasks ā theyāre frames.
Every touchpoint either:
Reinforces an old belief (āMy kid will probably quit after two weeksā)
Or rewires a new one (āThis is the place that will change my childās lifeā)
A confused parent says no.
A skeptical parent delays.
A transformed parent says yes ā because they believe it was their idea.
š§ Thatās how storytelling works in this business.
š§© Tell Their Story Better Than They Can
Parents donāt buy martial arts ā they buy what it means for their kid.
And theyāll never say it perfectly. Thatās your job.
āI know what youāre thinking⦠āMy child is shy and Iāve tried sports before, but nothing stuck.ā Let me tell you about Sarah. She was the same way untilā¦ā
Now the parent is leaning forward ā because they see their kid in Sarah.
Donāt tell them the moral.
Let them discover it.
Thatās when belief shifts.
š§ Knock Down the 3 False Beliefs
Every enrollment conversation has the same 3 objections under the surface:
Vehicle Belief: āMartial arts wonāt get my child the result.ā
External Belief: āIt works for other kids, but not mine.ā
Internal Belief: āEven if it works, we canāt commit to the time, money, or consistency.ā
Your marketing has to rewrite these.
Not with hype. With stories.
āSome parents tell me, āThis wonāt work for my kid becauseā¦ā but hereās what weāve seenā¦ā
Thatās not objection-handling.
Thatās subconscious rewiring.
𤯠Identity Is the Real Offer
Youāre not just selling martial arts.
Youāre selling identity.
To parents: āYouāre the kind of parent who invests in your childās future.ā
To adults: āYouāre the type of person who takes control of your health, confidence, and discipline.ā
When you frame it that way, youāre no longer begging for sign-ups.
Youāre building belief in who they already want to be.
š„ The Heretic Always Wins
1/3 of every room is waiting for someone to say the thing theyāve been thinking ā but no one says out loud.
āI used to think martial arts was about fighting. Now I realize itās about building leaders.ā
āI thought more leads would fix my school. The truth? I didnāt know how to enroll and keep the ones I had.ā
Say the uncomfortable thing. Then flip the frame.
Thatās when parents stop saying no and start asking,
āWhat if?ā
𧬠Everything Is Subconscious Selling
From your first ad to the intro lesson to the trial close ā
Youāre not just selling classes.
Youāre shaping beliefs.
So stop trying to qualify leads.
Start building them into the parents and students who are qualified to buy.
Hereās how:
Tell stories that mirror their fears
Paint the future they crave
Give them the āwhatā that opens their eyes ā and sell them the āhowā that delivers
Because in the endā¦
The story isnāt the content.
The story is the conversion.
š Now go rewire some beliefs.
The Kickās pick of the hottest headlines in social this week:

This weekās feed delivered truth bombs, mindset shifts, and reminders that leadership starts in the mirror and is shaped by the company you keep. Hereās what caught our eye:
Adam Kifer
āIf you donāt strategically build the right team, you will accidentally build the wrong one.ā
Leadership isnāt just hiringāitās architecture.
š Watch it here
Kelly Murray
The power of your circle determines the quality of your mindset.
This oneās a reminder that who youāre around is shaping who you become.
š Watch it here
Mike Arce
Ever stopped to ask yourself, āWhy am I here?ā
This post isnāt fluffyāitās focused. When you lead from mission, momentum follows.
š Watch it here
Dave Kovar
You canāt control outcomesābut you can stack the odds in your favor.
This oneās all about habits, reps, and being consistent when others arenāt.
š Watch it here
Simon Sinek
āIf we want people to speak honestly, we must be willing to honestly listen.ā
Leadership isnāt just talking. Itās creating space where truth feels safe.
š Watch it here
š§ This weekās takeaway:
Your team. Your circle. Your questions. Your habits.
Theyāre either reinforcing the right thingsāor the wrong ones.
Lead with intention.
š Martial Memes
These memes hit home for all of us martial artists and gave us a good chuckle. Click on the image to view the original account that posted each meme. Enjoy!
Have a MEME that you want featured? Send them to us at [email protected] or tag our instagram account @thekicknewsletter.
š What Weāre Reading: The Motive by Patrick Lencioni

Stop managing. Start leading.
Most people think they want to lead.
But what they really want is the positionānot the responsibility.
In The Motive, best-selling author Patrick Lencioni (author of The Five Dysfunctions of a Team) flips the leadership conversation on its head.
He challenges readers to dig deep and ask: āWhy do I actually want to lead?ā
Is it to serve? Or is it to avoid hard things while staying in control?
This book is a short, fast readābut the impact hits hard.
Itās the perfect reset for any school owner, team leader, or business builder who feels stuck managing tasks instead of developing people.
š” Key Takeaways for School Owners:
ā
Real leadership means embracing uncomfortable responsibilities
ā
Delegating isnāt leadershipādeveloping people is
ā
Your team mirrors the motive behind your leadership, not just your actions
š Grab your copy here: The Motive on Amazon
If youāve been leading from pressure instead of purposeāthis is your reset.
š„ Breakthrough Advertising Wins: New Name, Same Relentless Results
(Formerly RMA ā still obsessed with performance)
In case you missed it:
Relentless Media Agency is now officially Breakthrough Advertising.
New name. Bigger mission. Same all-in commitment to lead-gen that actually converts.
And this week? Weāre spotlighting one of our clients whoās making the most of the momentum.
šÆ Client Spotlight: Matt Rosalez
Last week, Matt launched his Back-to-School + August promos for both his kids and adult programsāand theyāre pulling in leads at a š„ cost of just $11 per lead.
But thatās not all...
š Matt also launched ads for his second location this past Tuesdayāand leads are already flowing in there too.
Hereās what it looks like when strategy meets scale:
BTS Campaign: 10 leads @ $11.40
August Promo: 10 leads @ $11.51
Grand Opening (Location 2): Leads already flowingāmomentum building fast
š Massive shoutout to Matt and the Breakthrough team for executing with clarity, speed, and consistency.
š Want to be our next win story?
Book your RMA Discovery Call here.
Letās build your next lead machineābuilt to scale, not stall.
š¬ Have Something That Is Kick Worthy?
We know our readers have great ideas, insights, and stories to share! If youāve got something thatās "kick-worthy"āwhether itās a success story, a marketing tip, or something thatās helping your school thriveāsubmit it to us at [email protected]. Your content could be featured in an upcoming edition of The Kick and shared with martial arts school owners around the world!
š„ Thatās a Wrap
This issue was a reminder that leadership is about shaping what people believeābefore they buy, before they follow, and before they commit. From the stories you tell to the people you surround yourself with, everything in your world is either reinforcing momentum⦠or dragging it down.
So this week:
š§ Tell better stories.
š„ Audit your circle.
āļø Lead with more intention than reaction.
Because the most powerful businesses arenāt built on hypeātheyāre built on alignment, clarity, and belief.
Stay focused. Stay sharp.
And as alwaysāstay relentless and keep kicking forward. šš„