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🧠 Rewire the Buyer: Storytelling That Changes Beliefs

If you want real momentum in your school, stop trying to pitch memberships and start rewiring belief systems.

Hello, kickers!

šŸš€ The Kick is Here: Stories Sell, Strategy Scales, and Your Circle Matters

This week’s issue is all about shaping belief, building trust, and leading with more clarity than chaos. Our feature article dives into storytelling as a tool for conversion—because when parents hear their child’s story through your words, they stop shopping and start enrolling.

We’re also highlighting big wins from Matt Rosalez and the newly rebranded Breakthrough Advertising team, a leadership book that hits harder than most full-blown business courses, and five social posts that will challenge how you hire, listen, and think about your mission.

The people around you, the stories you tell, and the beliefs you reinforce?
They’re either building your business—or holding it back.

Let’s go.

šŸ“ Ready to Build What Actually Works?

IMPAKT Mastermind Live – Scottsdale | Nov 7–8, 2025

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This is implementation. On site. In the room. With real operators.

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šŸ”„ What You’ll Leave With:

  • A strategy that’s built around your numbers—not guesswork

  • Leadership tools that grow your team without burning you out

  • A lead-gen plan that runs without hand-holding

  • A fresh identity as the CEO, not the chief firefighter

  • Doug Payne – Founder & CEO of OHM Fitness, the future of EMS-based training

  • Brian Bogert – Human behavior and performance coach unlocking emotional intelligence and sustainable leadership

  • Mike Arce – CEO of Loud Rumor, the #1 marketing agency for fitness and wellness businesses

  • Brady Edwards – Former MrBeast creative producer, now CEO of The Biggest Agency known for scroll-stopping marketing content

  • + more surprises to be announced

šŸØ Event Details:

šŸ—“ Nov 7–8, 2025
šŸ“ Scottsdale Marriott at McDowell Mountains
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🧠 Rewire the Buyer: Storytelling That Changes Beliefs

Most school owners think their job is to convince parents or adults to sign up.
It’s not.

If you want real momentum in your school, stop trying to pitch memberships and start rewiring belief systems.

Because here’s the truth: anyone can offer a free class.
Few can tell a story that changes how a parent sees their child’s future.

That’s the difference between struggling for sign-ups and having people say,
ā€œWhere do I put my card?ā€

šŸ” You’re Not Selling Martial Arts. You’re Selling a Shift.

Dan Kennedy broke it down years ago:

  • Repair Offer – ā€œYour kid’s confidence is broken, we can fix it.ā€

  • Improvement Offer – ā€œThey’re okay, but we can make them better.ā€

  • New Opportunity – ā€œThis is something new, different, and better than anything you’ve tried.ā€

šŸŽÆ Guess which one wins?
āœ… New Opportunity.

Parents don’t want karate ā€œlike they had when they were kids.ā€
They want the thing that feels new, proven, and built for today’s challenges.

Frame it as a new opportunity and you’re not just asking them to buy classes — you’re inviting them to see their kid in a whole new way.

šŸŽÆ The Enrollment Funnel Isn’t a Website. It’s a Frame.

Stop thinking of your ads, texts, intro lessons, and follow-ups as tasks.
They’re not tasks — they’re frames.

Every touchpoint either:

  • Reinforces an old belief (ā€œMy kid will probably quit after two weeksā€)

  • Or rewires a new one (ā€œThis is the place that will change my child’s lifeā€)

  • A confused parent says no.

  • A skeptical parent delays.

  • A transformed parent says yes — because they believe it was their idea.

🧠 That’s how storytelling works in this business.

🧩 Tell Their Story Better Than They Can

Parents don’t buy martial arts — they buy what it means for their kid.
And they’ll never say it perfectly. That’s your job.

ā€œI know what you’re thinking… ā€˜My child is shy and I’ve tried sports before, but nothing stuck.’ Let me tell you about Sarah. She was the same way untilā€¦ā€

Now the parent is leaning forward — because they see their kid in Sarah.

Don’t tell them the moral.
Let them discover it.
That’s when belief shifts.

🧠 Knock Down the 3 False Beliefs

Every enrollment conversation has the same 3 objections under the surface:

  • Vehicle Belief: ā€œMartial arts won’t get my child the result.ā€

  • External Belief: ā€œIt works for other kids, but not mine.ā€

  • Internal Belief: ā€œEven if it works, we can’t commit to the time, money, or consistency.ā€

Your marketing has to rewrite these.
Not with hype. With stories.

ā€œSome parents tell me, ā€˜This won’t work for my kid because…’ but here’s what we’ve seenā€¦ā€

That’s not objection-handling.
That’s subconscious rewiring.

🤯 Identity Is the Real Offer

You’re not just selling martial arts.
You’re selling identity.

  • To parents: ā€œYou’re the kind of parent who invests in your child’s future.ā€

  • To adults: ā€œYou’re the type of person who takes control of your health, confidence, and discipline.ā€

When you frame it that way, you’re no longer begging for sign-ups.
You’re building belief in who they already want to be.

šŸ”„ The Heretic Always Wins

1/3 of every room is waiting for someone to say the thing they’ve been thinking — but no one says out loud.

ā€œI used to think martial arts was about fighting. Now I realize it’s about building leaders.ā€

ā€œI thought more leads would fix my school. The truth? I didn’t know how to enroll and keep the ones I had.ā€

Say the uncomfortable thing. Then flip the frame.

That’s when parents stop saying no and start asking,
ā€œWhat if?ā€

🧬 Everything Is Subconscious Selling

From your first ad to the intro lesson to the trial close —
You’re not just selling classes.
You’re shaping beliefs.

So stop trying to qualify leads.
Start building them into the parents and students who are qualified to buy.

Here’s how:

  • Tell stories that mirror their fears

  • Paint the future they crave

  • Give them the ā€œwhatā€ that opens their eyes — and sell them the ā€œhowā€ that delivers

Because in the end…

The story isn’t the content.
The story is the conversion.

šŸ‘Š Now go rewire some beliefs.

šŸ”„ What’s Kickin’ on Social

The Kick’s pick of the hottest headlines in social this week:

This week’s feed delivered truth bombs, mindset shifts, and reminders that leadership starts in the mirror and is shaped by the company you keep. Here’s what caught our eye:

Adam Kifer
ā€œIf you don’t strategically build the right team, you will accidentally build the wrong one.ā€
Leadership isn’t just hiring—it’s architecture.
šŸ‘‰ Watch it here

Kelly Murray
The power of your circle determines the quality of your mindset.
This one’s a reminder that who you’re around is shaping who you become.
šŸ‘‰ Watch it here

Mike Arce
Ever stopped to ask yourself, ā€œWhy am I here?ā€
This post isn’t fluffy—it’s focused. When you lead from mission, momentum follows.
šŸ‘‰ Watch it here

Dave Kovar
You can’t control outcomes—but you can stack the odds in your favor.
This one’s all about habits, reps, and being consistent when others aren’t.
šŸ‘‰ Watch it here

Simon Sinek
ā€œIf we want people to speak honestly, we must be willing to honestly listen.ā€
Leadership isn’t just talking. It’s creating space where truth feels safe.
šŸ‘‰ Watch it here

🧠 This week’s takeaway:
Your team. Your circle. Your questions. Your habits.
They’re either reinforcing the right things—or the wrong ones.

Lead with intention.

šŸ˜‚ Martial Memes

These memes hit home for all of us martial artists and gave us a good chuckle. Click on the image to view the original account that posted each meme. Enjoy!

Have a MEME that you want featured? Send them to us at [email protected] or tag our instagram account @thekicknewsletter.

šŸ“š What We’re Reading: The Motive by Patrick Lencioni

Stop managing. Start leading.

Most people think they want to lead.
But what they really want is the position—not the responsibility.

In The Motive, best-selling author Patrick Lencioni (author of The Five Dysfunctions of a Team) flips the leadership conversation on its head.
He challenges readers to dig deep and ask: ā€œWhy do I actually want to lead?ā€

Is it to serve? Or is it to avoid hard things while staying in control?

This book is a short, fast read—but the impact hits hard.
It’s the perfect reset for any school owner, team leader, or business builder who feels stuck managing tasks instead of developing people.

šŸ’” Key Takeaways for School Owners:
āœ… Real leadership means embracing uncomfortable responsibilities
āœ… Delegating isn’t leadership—developing people is
āœ… Your team mirrors the motive behind your leadership, not just your actions

šŸ“– Grab your copy here: The Motive on Amazon

If you’ve been leading from pressure instead of purpose—this is your reset.

šŸ’„ Breakthrough Advertising Wins: New Name, Same Relentless Results

(Formerly RMA — still obsessed with performance)

In case you missed it:
Relentless Media Agency is now officially Breakthrough Advertising.
New name. Bigger mission. Same all-in commitment to lead-gen that actually converts.

And this week? We’re spotlighting one of our clients who’s making the most of the momentum.

šŸŽÆ Client Spotlight: Matt Rosalez

Last week, Matt launched his Back-to-School + August promos for both his kids and adult programs—and they’re pulling in leads at a šŸ”„ cost of just $11 per lead.

But that’s not all...

šŸš€ Matt also launched ads for his second location this past Tuesday—and leads are already flowing in there too.

Here’s what it looks like when strategy meets scale:

  • BTS Campaign: 10 leads @ $11.40

  • August Promo: 10 leads @ $11.51

  • Grand Opening (Location 2): Leads already flowing—momentum building fast

šŸ‘ Massive shoutout to Matt and the Breakthrough team for executing with clarity, speed, and consistency.

šŸ‘‰ Want to be our next win story?
Book your RMA Discovery Call here.
Let’s build your next lead machine—built to scale, not stall.

šŸ“¬ Have Something That Is Kick Worthy?

We know our readers have great ideas, insights, and stories to share! If you’ve got something that’s "kick-worthy"—whether it’s a success story, a marketing tip, or something that’s helping your school thrive—submit it to us at [email protected]. Your content could be featured in an upcoming edition of The Kick and shared with martial arts school owners around the world!

šŸ”„ That’s a Wrap

This issue was a reminder that leadership is about shaping what people believe—before they buy, before they follow, and before they commit. From the stories you tell to the people you surround yourself with, everything in your world is either reinforcing momentum… or dragging it down.

So this week:
🧠 Tell better stories.
šŸ‘„ Audit your circle.
āš™ļø Lead with more intention than reaction.

Because the most powerful businesses aren’t built on hype—they’re built on alignment, clarity, and belief.

Stay focused. Stay sharp.
And as always—stay relentless and keep kicking forward. šŸ‘ŠšŸ”„